You wouldn’t be very thrilled if he was checking out every girl in the place and giving them each a big smile and pleasant greeting, and he’s not going to like it either.
If you want to let him know that he has work to do before you are really his girl, there are better ways.
When women start dating new men, it might be appropriate to say, “Gentlemen, start your engines!
” After all, the excitement of being with a new girl is certainly bound to get a guy a little revved up.
Some guys will jump through any hoops just to be near you, but these are the kind of guys you lose respect for fast and were probably just trying to humor in the first place.
He might go out on a goose chase once just to satisfy your whim for an ice cream cone.
There’s a fine line between helping him see that you are attractive to other men and acting like you are attracted to them.
This is a game for divas and should never be used on guys you really care about.
But too many games can also be a sign of insecurity, a attitude or even an early power-grab to get the upper hand in the relationship.
Real relationships don’t thrive on gamesmanship, and it may even undermine your chances at a functional and enduring love affair.
He will see the way other guys look at you, and that will keep him on his toes.