And finally, let's use this as an example of how important it is to stop this trend of writing horrible headlines about women, painting us as bitter, angry, insecure, heartbroken, childless, feuding, backstabbing monsters because whether we want to admit it or not, it changes the way all women view themselves. Let's shift what we put into the universe starting now, & hopefully we will start to see a shift in the way we treat each other & view ourselves❤A post shared by Nikki Reed (@iamnikkireed) on "I now see that silence was taken as an opportunity to fill in the blanks with even more falsities, and juicer stories, and we, yes WE, believe we have a moral responsibility to young girls to end that narrative, because at the end of all of this, those young girls are the ones who lose," Dobrev wrote on Instagram."Their passion and endless devotion for a tv show is being taken advantage of, replaced with feelings of anger through divisive techniques, & even worse, their minds are being shaped & molded as their view of themselves, other girls, & what those dynamics should look like are being formed."So here's to putting an end to all those fake stories of on set jealousy, betrayal, made-up-friendships lost & women hating women.
And shame on these websites for now targeting an even younger demographic, instilling this at an earlier age when girls are even more susceptible, more vulnerable and more malleable.
This will be the first marriage for Somerhalder, 36, and the second for Reed, 26.
Because at the end of the day, that's what this is about: teaching girls that you have to hate other girls only breeds a generation of women who believe you have to hate other women.
And that's what these magazines, websites and blogs don't understand.
And, we’re doing that in Nashville and then we go to Alabama to be with Paul's family.
And, my favorite thing ever is watching Paul’s grandma open her gag gift.
I need a man to put the suitcase in the overhead compartment because I cant lift it because there’s no handle that works.
It's time, 11 years, it's time."Are you looking forward to anything special for the holidays? We start recording the rest of our album December 15, to be released at the end of January.
I know that in terms of Paul, it's really important for me to let him know that he’s my priority. If I don’t feel overwhelmed, and I don’t feel like my head’s going to explode because I have so much going on, then I’m not happy.
I love to feel like I’m scared about what I have going on, that I’m outside of my comfort zone.
So, I have one, two, three, four — we had four weddings this year.
I think it’s becoming more common."You design, you sing, you act, you produce — how do you balance it all? I feel like I always say I’m not a good multitasker, but I multitask a lot, so maybe I’m better at it than I think.
All I know for sure is it's the strongest feeling I've ever felt.