This is a decision that can only be made at your discretion and the exercise of some degree of caution is recommended.
And let’s also say that your number one objective was to engage in some form of short-term and/or non-monogamous sex with this woman in the near future (e.g., one-night stand, weekend fling, Friends-with-Benefits type arrangement, etc.); What would be the very first thing that you would say to this woman?
How quickly would you let this woman know what your specific desires, interests, and intentions are?
She looks at me and says “You sound like you could be a guy on the radio”. ” At this moment in time, my nutjob radar went off. When I talked to you the other day, I was being very real.
I thought this was kind of random, but I replied with “Oh really? Although I’m not a guy who speaks on the radio, I do engage in online videomaking and public speaking. If you ask me, the fact that I was so honest should automatically be rendered as respectful behavior.” The girls laugh.
After six to twelve months of this, that man could end up spending a lot of money on women who he will never end up allowing him to tongue-kiss them and/or exchanging orgasms with them.
At least when a man spends money on the services of a street prostitute, professional Call Girl, or upscale Erotic Escort, he is sex.
Even worse, a man could find himself going out with a woman on three or four lunch dates and dinner & a movie dates, only to find out at the end of the third or fourth date that the woman has no interest in sharing his company other than as purely platonic friends.
What if each of these ‘dates’ end up costing that man – 0 per date?
Some people refer to this field as simply the “Dating Advice Industry” (which usually encompasses those who give advice to both men AND women), and those who primarily target single heterosexual men only are usually categorized as being a part of what is known as ‘The Attraction and Seduction Industry,’ or simply, ‘The Seduction Community.’ The main benefit of hiring a dating coach would be to help you identify the strengths and weaknesses of your conversations and social interactions with women of interest, and provide you with knowledge, wisdom, and general advice that will help you get women to look at you as a man who they would like to spend time with in a romantic and/or sexual manner as opposed to a man who they want nothing more from than purely platonic social companionship. Over the last 15 to 20 years or so, you could basically divide all of the advice given to men in two general categories: Those who endorse and promote a ‘direct’ interpersonal communication style with women, and those who endorse and promote a more ‘indirect’ means of communicating your desires, interests, and intentions to women.