For example, you are likely to be angry with an ex-spouse who was abusive or unfaithful.
After all, you are a good person and you did not deserve the pain that you are going through.
Sadly however, many choose to stay "in the angry" or "in the bitter" to the point that they are unable or unwilling to move forward from a place of pain to a place of peace.
It just may not be quite time for you to begin dating...
know when the time to begin dating is right, if you simply listen to and trust in yourself -- and just as with a bruise, eventually, that tender spot in your heart does heal. Carole's latest book, has won the prestigious Books for a Better Life Award.
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